DON'T MARRY A MAN YOU CAN'T CARRY THE BURDEN OF HIS DESTINY.

 A lot of ladies don't know this.
A greater proportion of women wants to marry
great men, celebrities, authorities, maybe because
of money, but truth is, Can you pay the price in
marriage?
I have come to understanding that so many great
people hardly have time for their family, can you
cope?
A lot of ladies will love to have been the wife to a
great man like Bishop Oyedepo, But do you know
he hardly sleeps? He hardly has time for his wife?
But there's excess of money...
What of his attention?
A lot of ladies get to discover that money isn't
everything, when it's already late.
A man who is globally relevant might not give
you all the attention you need, what will keep you
in those times is the love and passion you have
for his vision and mandate and that brings me to
this point: Marry a man whose vision you can
carry.
Getting married to very great people isn't beans.
Ask their wives. Being a people's person isn't
easy. Many celebrities don't spend up to three
months in a year with their families.
Can you cope that time because money can't
solve that one?
Will you be able to cope when he'll have to be
away for eight months and as he's getting back,
he has another trip for a year, and all that kind of
serial engagements?
Even Van Vicker, Famous actor confessed he
barely has up to two months with his wife in a
year.
Many girls would wish to have married Van, but
how many can understand when he'll have to
stay away for long because of his dreams and
purpose?
Personally, I have a mandate to reach out to 2
billion people before i die, to impact and influence
a minimum of that amount before I breath my last
breath. God keeps using people to warn me that I
have to be careful when it comes to choosing a
life partner. Because a mistake there will ruin my
purpose.
A man might be vision minded, passionate,
ambitious, and rich and handsome and you wish
to marry him but truth is, You can't bear the
burden of his mandate. You can't endure it.
Do you know what the wives of pastors endure?
Do you know what the wives of great icons
endure?
It's not by fantasizing about love from morning
till night. If you're thinking of marrying a great
man, be ready to pay a great task in marriage.
Myles Monroe when alive got over 800 invitations
to speak in a year, How did he cope?
How do you think his wife coped?
It was because she was strong enough to bear
the burden of her husband's purpose.
It doesn't end at marrying a man with a vision.
You must understand that as time goes, that
vision will explode and he might not have so
much time for you,you need to understand and
adjust. This is also why a lot of celebrities have
issues with marriage.
I'm not saying celebrities shouldn't have time for
their family in the name of their vision but believe
me no matter how much they spare, it can't be
much like an average man.
Some of them hardly sleep sef!!!
No matter how great I become, I'll always have
time to be with my wife and family but I doubt
it'll be every now and then. I wish it would be but
with my life's purpose, It might be tough.
Can you manage a man's greatness?
Money won't change anything. Some ladies think
when there's money, marriage is better. Lol.
Money sure helps but a lot women that married
rich and great men wants to divorce because they
can't cope with the burden of his purpose.
This article applies to both sex.
Marry the person whose burden of purpose, you
can carry.
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